I first posted this Halloween 2009, my first Halloween in the blogahood. I guess it has become an annual tradition here at Blue Cotton Memory, where raising my boys to be American Patriots steeped in faith and freedom are part of my mission statement. Trick or Treat – what are you looking for in this election season?
Trick or Treat
Give me Something Good to Eat
Every topic provides a teachable moment about God and, often, politics. Halloween is no different.
Last year, before the election, I was driving my boys somewhere-we are always going somewhere, and we were talking, discussing the difference between presidential candidates.
I explained how our capitalistic country was born out of the failure of socialism. William Bradford, author of Plymouth Plantation led a group of people to settle in America. Their settlement charter required them to form a socialist society. All results of work would be equally shared among their group. The first year was an utter failure. Healthy young men did not work. Why? Because they knew they would get their equal share of the pie whether they worked or not, as the charter stated. Suffering resulted, and, sadly, the ones who worked hard to provide for those who did not work suffered equally. The colony revised their charter the second year into a capitalistic charter: what you made you kept to sell, barter, trade. The colony flourished. Those lazy young men worked when there was profit/rewards to be had.
“Capitalism allows you to keep what you earn and choose where to spend it; socialism “From each according to his ability, to each according to his need”(Marx), meaning that it doesn’t matter how much you work or how good you are, the government will take away your earnings to give to fill other peoples’ needs.”
My sons looked at me blankly. Hmmmmm, apparently, I needed to put this into the U-14 venacular.” Passing houses with pumpkins filling door ways, black cat flags, and other ghoulish festivities, I pulled an idea out of the figurative candy basket of my brain.
I assessed my boys through the rear-view mirror.
“What’s your favorite part about Halloween,” I asked.
“Candy,” chimed the unhesitatant chorus.
“What if the Jones wouldn’t allow their children to go Trick or Treating because they didn’t believe in it? The Thompsons were just too lazy? The Smith’s too sick? What would you do when you got home and Dad said you had to give 2/3 of your candy to those families? How would you feel?”
“Not going to happen!” my then 8th grader answered bluntly.
The two younger ones looked appalled, even disgusted.
I countered my 8th grader, “But he is your Dad, you have to do what he says. Just like the president is the president-you have to do what he says, too. Socialism is like your dad telling you you must share, whether you want to or not. Socialism is when the leader of your country decides how many other people you have to give your hard-earned halloween candy to.”
“Some people don’t believe in trick or treating, some just don’t want to, some people maybe just can’t for real reasons. Despite the reason why others do not have Halloween candy, you cannot call it giving when the government takes it away and chooses who to give your stuff to.”
My 4th grader said, “Well, if they were sick, I’d share.”
“In a Capitalist society, you go out, work hard, and determine what to do with your earnings. The moral choice is yours to make with giving. That is what makes it moral,” I answered. “There’s nobleness and goodness in giving when you make the choice to give-that is capitalism, and that’s why we’re known as the most giving country in the world. There is no moral giving without choice. There is no generosity of spirit without choice.”
Halloween is a sweet-tooth example of the capitalist system thriving in our country. I bet your children share without being told to, or barter the results of their hard work.
Socialism or Capitalism–what’s the real trick or treat?
Bravo! This is an excellent post. You’ve spelled it out so even kids can understand. I loved this: “There is no moral giving without choice. There is no generosity of spirit without choice.”
Stopping by from SITS and will be back for more!
That is an excellent analogy that I am sure they immediately understood!
Awesome analogy! I really enjoy all your posts on politics. It makes me want to become more knowledgeable on the subject. This statement is perfect, “There’s nobleness and goodness in giving when you make the choice to give-that is capitalism, and that’s why we’re known as the most giving country in the world. There is no moral giving without choice. There is no generosity of spirit without choice.”
Thanks for sharing your knowledge with us!
What an awesome way to put something as confusing as socialism and capitalism into terms a kid can understand!
Stopping by from SITS, love your writing style!
now that is a way I never thought of ever explaining…though of course there is still a lot of time to think on this 🙂 but liked your idea!
I agree and have never heard a better explanation of capitalism and I will use it when my little girl asks why this country is so great. Also as a decedent of William Branford it warms my hart to know his legacy is remembered.
Clever way to put it! and in a very kid friendly manner!
great post! I wasn’t here last fall… so I for one am happy to have you repost last years message!! snicker, snicker… (oh… snickers… yum… ha ha)
What a great post, you definitely made me think about things! I will have to remember this when my boys get old enough to understand!
I loved this! Great post. I am always looking for teachable moments too…they are everywhere….now I have a new one to use :-D.
Such a relatable way to explain it!
Great analogy! And I so agree with you! I’m glad I stopped in from the sits girls contest to read this!
Nice explanation. I love it when we can turn big people issues into one that little ones can relate to. The learning is so much more powerful.
This makes me think about how we shape our children to have our own politics—as one could just as easily tell kids that with socialism everyone gets candy and with capitalism one kid somehow ends up with all the candy.
Maybe the real take-away is that kids of every stripe love Halloween because they get candy and it’s the candy they can truly understand. Perhaps on this day all our kids are closer to a common agreement than their well-meaning, but diversely oriented parents, manage to achieve.
Either way, Namaste
Glad you re-posted this.
My favorite part of the lesson:
“There’s nobleness and goodness in giving when you make the choice to give-that is capitalism, and that’s why we’re known as the most giving country in the world. There is no moral giving without choice. There is no generosity of spirit without choice.”
What privilegeofparenting fails to see, is that there is no such thing as “all” the candy. There are ALWAYS more doors to knock on, and plenty of candy to go around!
Sadly, socialism has historically failed to provide a Utopian sharing society. History shows that socialist communities fail to produce the prosperity for “all” – rather commodities from health care to food to finances are rationed. Work ethic is also reduced. “All the candy” has never been successfully shared through government mandates. As a well-meaning parent, I want to ensure that my children understand the diverse forms of government around the globe, the cause/effects of that government – and understand that by doing their best, working their hardest, taking care of their responsibilities, and that through the harvest of such behavior, they choose to help those in need – thereby, controlling their morality via their christian principles.
I agree Chris there are plenty of doors to knock on and plenty of candy to go around – one just needs to do it!
Hi Guys, Just to be clear, I’m not advocating for socialism, rather trying to help us realize that our own ideas are very much shaped by those who raised us and taught us… and that we must find ways to transcend our inadequate lexicon in favor of some sort of discussion that lets us live as our best selves.
I’m not all that enamored of any “ism” as we’ve clearly yet to find the magic approach to end poverty and injustice. I see no better model than true American Democracy… yet I cannot say that we are fully living this yet as a nation.
I know that Chris and BCM want the best for all our kids, and the fact that we can chat here amicably and not just “preach to the choir” strikes me as a grown-up step in the right direction.
Sending All Good Wishes and gratitude for what just is (and for our learning together in loving kindness).
I so love a good discussion amongst friends! Thanks for the dialogue:) Good wishes back at you!
I thought you did a great job explaining it here. So simple and yet it gets the point across.
Wow! This is a fantastic post. I am glad you reposted it. I often look for the teaching moments, but my kidddo’s are still too young to get this. But as we walked through the streets in spirit of the holiday, I was still terrified. The thoughts of what Halloween used to be and what it is now says a lot about how society and parenting has changed as a whole. And unfortunately it is headed in a scary place.
I’m just glad to meet another halloween-lovin’ Christian. Man. I love halloween.
I love it, too, Brandee!
I love that you are making this a Halloween tradition. This was an excellent explanation. I loved it!
Super example of somwthing very scarry that I pray will never happen to oour wonderful country.
Joy
Helpful analogy for your children. 🙂
I’m always surprised at adults that can’t even get the simple truth that charity can’t be legislated. People will never be truly generous – as we are called to be – if they are told to be by “law”. Giving starts in the heart and continues through the hands and feet of the deliverer. We are His hands and feet.