Before Christmas, I bought a new quilt for my bed. Depending on my mood, it can be found either folded over the foot of the bed atop a white coverlet like the one in the picture. Right now my white coverlet is folded away in the closet. Regardless of which blanket is the main blanket, my original quilt – one about 11 years old, is not far away – either folded over the foot of my bed or on my settee.
The old quilt has history. Snugglebuggles when all the boys would end up in our room, the biggest one wrapped in the Blue Cotton Blanket on the floor, and, depending on who wandered in during the night, one or all of the other 4. Climbing under the Green Cotton Blanket was synonymous with comfort, warmth, giggles, good-night books, a safe haven during a blustery thunderstorm, funny sounds in the night, a healing cocoon when sickness struck – and mom.
I guess they spent nine months in me – and the closest they could get to mama after those nine months was being wrapped up in the Green Cotton Blanket.
I’ve knitted blankets they love, bought little boy bedroom blankets, and Nanny quilted blankets for each son. But none are filled with the Green Cotton Blanket Magic.
The surest sign they are growing up is when they stop wandering in for snuggles under the Green Cotton Blanket. That is as it should be. However, they’ve never tried to steal it. . . until a few weeks ago. Why should I be surprised, though? One son stole the Blue Cotton Blanket; apparently, it is in the genes.
There, so innocently, folded over my bed, just waiting to be used – The Green Cotton Blanket.
The littlest guy, pictured below all snuggled up in blankets in his carrier, was he headed for a life of blanket theft even then? In the background, you can see the green cotton blanket. Was the pull of the blanket just too much? And he broke? Temptation is they name. . . Green Cotton Blanket?
Those same words from almost 22 years ago, the same facial expressions, just a different little boy, the littlest boy. As his fingertips pulled at the blanket, he flashed a guilty smile full of bravado, “I’ll just take this. You don’t really need it.”
“But what about if I take a nap? I’ll still need it?”
“How ’bout I get it at night, and you can have it in the daytime?” he countered as he darted out of the room, his body shielding me from the Green Cotton Blanket – as though I were the threat.
I stood there amused because the situation was so familiar to my heart. And so bemused because I was out another blanket – one I really like snuggling with for myself. We went back and forth for a few days. He would trot to the bathroom; I would sneak in to steal it back. But I knew it was a lost cause. Because when you get too old to snuggle with mama, well, you really still do want to but you’re just too old, so the next best thing is the snuggle blanket. It is not a total snuggle-free zone yet, but I see the writing on the wall! Or the message in the blanket.
I just somehow feel like I’ve lost more than a Green Cotton Blanket!
Josiah used to climb in bed with us in the morning even up until he was 14. I used to think how wonderful it was that he did not think it uncomfortable but comforting to get in and enjoy the warmth and snuggles of both of his parents even up until then. Sadly, but I guess appropriately, that was the final age of when he stopped visiting our down comforter on weekend mornings. But I still get to snuggle with him on the couch once in awhile and watch tv with him. I guess I will have to be thankful and satisfied with that because I know that will not last a whole lot longer either and some other woman will eventually replace me as he ventures off to manhood. I guess that is how the story is supposed to go. But it makes me a little bit weepy and sad to think about it now! 😥
They do grow so fast. Every time my hubby would be gone on a trip, my son would beg to sleep in my bed. the last few times, he hasn’t asked. At first i was excited at the thought of a bed to myself for a night and then realized I was sad… he’s growing up.
I loved this post.
Happy thursday!
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